Look... I realize that I have a lot of young people reading this site, but I am not here to provide advice for your retarded ass middle school drama bullshit! Nobody fucking cares!
Fine, whatever though, here ya go. I'll help ya out.
STOP BEING A RETARD! The dude just wants to cram your shithole. He's obviously too immature to give a shit about anything else. Go date an older guy if you're looking for someone who might want both a relationship AND physical contact. If you're looking for a guy who's *not* interested in sticking his tongue down your throat, grinding up against you, or just plain trying to fuck you, then you're shit out of luck because those kinda guys are called GAY guys and they won't be interested in dating you.